Maybe you can’t get a good erection. Or maybe you find it difficult to last long enough during sex. It’s embarrassing and worrying.

Congratulations for deciding to find out more about your problem. It’s brave to do that. You’ve taken a step to fixing it. Together, we can work on making it better for you (and your partner).

Trouble getting or keeping an erection is called Impotence, or Erectile Dysfunction.

For many men, there’s a related problem that they can’t go on long enough. It’s all over – way too fast. This is Premature Ejaculation.

Both these problems can be caused by lifestyle factors like drinking, smoking, being overweight, medical problems, depression or anxiety.

The effect on you

There can be different psychological reasons for it, but the problem is always the same: You can’t get a good, strong, long-lasting erection, or you finish before you’ve even warmed up. It’s bad news for you, and for your partner – and that makes it even worse for you.

These problems can make you feel angry, guilty or ashamed. They can even lead to depression, pushing you to lose interest in sex completely. And you don’t want that to happen.

Physical and psychological reasons contribute to a man’s erection difficulty. We understand how these problems can impact on your life and relationships. Some problems are psychological, some are medical. But even the medical ones have psychological effects.

Regardless of any treatment you might have tried before, read on. When you feel it’s worth talking to us, contact Andrew Monaghan for a totally confidential chat.

Having trouble with sex can impact your life in a big way. Not only will it create tensions and problems in your intimate relationship with your partner, but you will be missing important physical pleasure and enjoyment. Sexual pleasure gives people a release and helps create a deeply intimate connection.

Difficulty in the bedroom robs you and your partner of that, so you need to get it back.

If you are having problems with erections or with coming too soon, we can help. The sooner you start, the sooner you can enjoy having sex again.